The same words can be spoken by different people and they will have different effects.
Though all of us are entitled to our thoughts and opinions and some feel very passionate about certain subjects, people generally follow those who have attained a level of success in the area where they share, especially in their field of work, inter-personal relationships and family.

Consider the difference in impact when a rich man and a poor man when they say “there are better things in life than having great wealth.”
Consider the difference in impact when the top scholar in school and the below average student says that “I got my grades because I put God first in my life and studies.”
Consider the difference in impact when a man of character and a fool says that God moulds use through the trials and tribulation. ( The latter suffers for his foolishness. )
Consider the difference in impact when a proven soldier in the battlefield and a soldier who deserted his comrades say “war is futile.” The proven soldier’s words will provoke thinking.
Consider the difference in impact when a godly man and a hypocrite say “God’s gentleness has made me great.” The latter’s words is disgusting.
For words to weigh, it will take:
A Hardy to share about giving,
A Cechao to share about love and kind words,
A Yang Zheng to share about serving,
A Jimmy to share about business leadership,
A Zhenghao to share about excellence in academics,
A Johnson to share about loving the lost,
A Nancy to share about the merits of having a guitar during QT,
A Peishan to share about intellect and excellence,
An Elaine or Sherilyn to share about creativity… and so on..
Therefore, it is not really about how eloquent we can be, but really, who we are.
Observe the traits of your mentors and those you want to learn from. These people have the knack of influencing you and their words someone seemed more valuable than others who can say the same thing.
The influence of the Church today is the sum total of the influence of each and every member in the Body of Christ out there in the marketplace. To bring kristos kai kosmos, we must constantly seek to lead lives with integrity, that is, a life where others see is consistent with what is inside us.
To see our world change, we must change ourselves. Preach only what you practice. If there is any area where we feel strongly that we want others to rise up to, let it begin with us.